I’ve been asked to write a love letter on why I wrote kintsugi wellness.
It took me three years to write, photograph, direct and produce this book. I went completely broke writing her. My bank account draining forced my hand to get really creative + also to get the courage to photograph her myself. I was scared. Now, we have three days left to support…
I sat down with mom for dozens of hours, to edit all the traditional Japanese traditions..
Of course, at some point I said – ok, it’s “as good as I could possibly do”, it’s not perfect …..it’s never going to be perfect, (and we are continuously practicing “wabi sabi”).
A vast majority was written in Japan, while I was alone and grieving much loss — I actually wrote the book for you, to heal, to love, to grow. I did the work.
You see, I was writing in a very crowded wellness space, and as one of the original pioneers in this space, I decided it was time to walk away. I wasn’t going to play small or basic.
My grandmother then, was passing away in Japan, an unfit relationship ended, I wasn’t happy with writing “basic” or “clickbait”.
I needed to heal, to love to grow… I needed to go deep, and seal my past wounds. I needed to shine my brightest light, and stop being so afraid…
I want you to know– most of my career I have been scrutinized + criticized– being a public person is not easy. I never cared to be in the spotlight… rather, I want my work to shine (kaizen) + to help others:) (osettai) and that is all. Writing + creating content with integrity is how I have been able to do this.
I urge us all to let up on ourselves and one another. Yes, you will see imperfections in my work + my friends, that is what I am currently learning to let go of… Wabi sabi. Be gentle with thyself and others.
Once I faced my fears, took my mask off, and did the work –I began filling my cup with “the work”.
I practice “Kintsugi Wellness”
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Events? Why yes– they are coming – please stay tuned on my IG for all announcements!
For now, here’s my warm-up!
domo arigato gosaimashita! xxx